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2


    :       http://franklincoveyresearch.org/catalog/3rd_alternative_survey_2011.pdf.




3


Elizabeth Lesser, "Take the 'Other' to Lunch," dotsub.com, no date, http://dotsub.com/view/6581098e-8c0d-4ec0938d-23a6cb9500eb/viewTranscript/eng.




4


   .: R. Buckminster Fuller, Synergetics-Explorations in the Geometry of Thinking (New York: Macmillan, 1975), 6.




5


. : Stephen R. Covey, "The Mission Statement that Changed the World," The Stephen R. Covey Community, http://www.stevencovey.com/blog/?=14.




6


  ,  ,  , . : Carl Rogers, On Becoming a Person (New York: Houghton Mifflin Harcourt, 1995), 6163.




7


Henry Mintzberg, "A Crisis of Management, Not Economics," Globe and Mail (Toronto), March 31, 2009.




8


Owen J. Flanagan, The Problem of the Soul (New York: Basic Books, 2002), 30.




9


Lee H. Hamilton, "We Can Reconcile Polarized Politics," JournalStar.com, December 3, 2010, http://journalstar.com/news/opinion/editorial/columnists/article_bf62ba7890735d13-b19e-ef5a66ea2465.html.




10


David Brooks, "The Rush to Therapy," New York Times, November 9, 2009.




11


Michael Battle and Desmond Tutu, Ubuntu: I in You and You in Me (New York: Church Publishing, 2009), 3.




12


Orland Bishop, "Sawubona," http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2IjUkVZRPK8&feature=related. Accessed November 22, 2010.




13


David Schneider, The Psychology of Stereotyping (New York: Guilford Press, 2004), 145.




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15


Martin Buber, I and Thou (New York: Simon & Schuster, 2000), 23, 28, 54.




16


Carl Rogers, A Way of Being (New York: Houghton Mifflin Harcourt, 1995), 22.




17


Nelson Mandela, In His Own Words (New York: Hachette Digital, 2. 2003), xxxii.




18


"Christo Brand," The Forgiveness Project, http://theforgivenessproject.com/stories/christo-brand-vusumzi-mcongo-south-africa/. Accessed November 23, 2010.




19


Andrew Meldrum, The Guard Who Really Was Mandela's Friend," Observer (London), May 20, 2007, http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2007/may/20/nelsonmandela. Accessed November 23, 2010.




20


Nelson Mandela, Long Walk to Freedom (New York: Holt, Rinehart and Winston, 2000), p. 544.




21


Desmond Tutu, No Future Without Forgiveness (New York: Doubleday, 1999), 265.




22


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23


Ronald C. Arnett, Communication and Community: Implications of Martin Buber's Dialogue (Carbondale: Southern Illinois University Press, 1986), 34.




24


 . .     ? .: ,   , 2010, http://www.ted.com/talks/seth_godin_on_the_tribes_we_lead.html. Accessed November 20, 2010.




25


Carol Locust, "The Talking Stick," Acacia Artisans: Stories and Facts, http://www.acaciart.com/stories/archive6.html. Accessed October 10, 2010.




26


William Nelson Fenton, The Great Law and the Longhouse: A Political History of the Iroquois Confederacy (Norman, OK: University of Oklahoma Press, 1998), 9091.




27


Encyclopedia of the Haudenosaunee (Iroquois Confederacy), ed. Bruce Elliott Johansen and Barbara Alice Mann (Westport, CT: Greenwood Publishing Group), 246.




28


. : Susan Kalter, Benjamin Franklin, Pennsylvania, and the First Nations (Champaign: University of Illinois Press, 2006), 28.




29


Khen Lampert, Traditions of Compassion (New York: Palgrave-Macmillan, 2006), 157.




30


Rogers, A Way of Being, 10.


