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1


Buss D. M. Dangerous Passion. New York: Free Press, 2000.




2


Leahy R. L. Emotional Schema Therapy. New York: Guilford Press, 2015.




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4


Trivers R. L. Parental Investment and Sexual Selection / Sexual Selection and the Descent of Man, 18711971. Chicago: Aldine, 1972.




5


Geary D. C., Rumsey M., Bow-Thomas C., Hoard M. K. Sexual Jealousy as a Facultative Trait: Evidence from the Pattern of Sex Differences in Adults from China and the United States // Ethology and Sociobiology 16, 5, 1995.




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 ; Buunk B. P., Angleitner A., Oubaid V., Buss D. M. Sex Differences in Jealousy in Evolutionary and Cultural Perspective: Tests from the Netherlands, Germany, and the United States // Psychological Science 7, 6, 1996.




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Hart S., Carrington H. Jealousy in 6-Month-Old Infants / Infancy 3, 3, 2002; Hart S., Field T., Del Valle C., Letourneau M. Infants Protest Their Mothers Attending to an Infant-Size Doll / Social Development 7, 1, 1998.




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Morris P. H., Doe C. D., Godsell E. Secondary Emotions in Non-Primate Species? Behavioral Reports and Subjective Claims by Animal Owners / Cognition and Emotion 22, 1, 2008.




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Andreas C., Parry J. J. The Art of Courtly Love. New York: Columbia University Press, 1990.




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Stearns P. N. American Cool: Constructing a Twentieth-Century Emotional Style. New York: NYU Press, 1994.




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I Heard It Through the Grapevine   ; Every Breath You Take   The Police; Hey Jealousy  - Gin Blossoms; Jealous Guy   . . .




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Karney B. R., Wilson C., Thomas M. S. Family Formation in Florida: 2003 Baseline Survey of Attitudes, Beliefs, and Demographics Relating to Marriage and Family Formation. Gainesville, FL: University of Florida, 2003.




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