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S.J. Scott, Barrie Davenport

Mindful relationship habits

25 practices for couples to enhance intimacy, nurture closeness, and grow a deep connection


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1


Scott S. J., Davenport B. 10-Minute Mindfulness: 71 Habits for Living in the Present Moment.




2


Jacoby S. Heres What The Divorce Rate Actually Means [ ] // REFINERYURL: https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/2017/01/137440/divorce-rate-in-america-statistics.




3


Barnes Z. More People Say Theyre Unhappy in Their Marriages Than Ever Before [ ] // Womens Health. URL: https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/more-are-unhappy-in-their-marriage-than-ever-before.




4


Gottman J. The 6 Things That Predict Divorce [ ] // The Gottman Institute. URL: https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-6-things-that-predict-divorce/.




5


Davenport B. Write It Out, Dont Fight It Out: How to Use Letters to Heal Your Relationship When Talking Gets Tough.




6


Wood R. G., Goesling B., Avellar S. The Effects of Marriage on Health: A Synthesis of Recent Research Evidence. Research Brief [ ] // ASPE. URL: https://aspe.hhs.gov/reports/effects-marriage-health-synthesis-recent-research-evidence-research-brief.




7


Marriage and Mens Health [ ] // Harvard Health Publishing. URL: https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/marriage-and-mens-health.




8


Gallacher D., Gallacher J. Are Relationships Good for Your Health? // BMJ. doi.: 10.1136/sbmj.d404.




9


Stressful Social Relations and Mortality: A Prospective Cohort Study [ ] / R. Lund [et al.] // Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health. Vol. I. URL: https://jech.bmj.com/content/68/8/720.




10


Zagorsky J. L. Marriage and Divorces Impact on Wealth // Journal of Sociology. doi.: 10.1177/1440783305058478.




11


Grover S., Helliwell J. Hows Life at Home? New Evidence on Marriage and the Set Point for Happiness // National Bureau of Economic Research. doi.: 10.3386/w20794.




12


Metz M. E., McCarthy B. W. Enduring Desire: Your Guide to Lifelong Intimacy.




13


Parker-Pope T. When Sex Leaves the Marriage [ ] // The New York Times. URL: https://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2009/06/03/when-sex-leaves-the-marriage/.




14


Divecha D. What Happens to Children When Parents Fight [ ] // Developmental Science. URL: https://www.developmentalscience.com/blog/2014/04/30/what-happens-to-children-when-parents-fight.




15


What is Ego Depletion? (And How It Can Derail Habit Change?) [ ]. URL: https://www.developgoodhabits.com/ego-depletion/.


