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1


       .        .     2  ,   600      80  .




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3


Alberti, R., and Emmons, M. 2017. Your Perfect Right. 10th ed. San Luis Obispo, CA: Impact.




4


Bowen, M. 1978. Family Therapy in Clinical Practice. New York: Jason Aronson.




5


Brothers, L. 1989. A Biological Perspective on Empathy. American Journal of Psychiatry 146 (1): 1019.




6


Lott, D. A. 2003. Unlearning Fear: Calcium Channel Blockers and the Process of Extinction. Psychiatric Times May: 912.




7


Bowlby, J. 1988. Developmental Psychiatry Comes of Age. American Journal of Psychiatry 145 (1): 110.




8


Eagleman, D. 2015. The Brain with David Eagleman. PBS television series.




9


Wilson, E. O. 1998. Consilience: The Unity of Knowledge. New York: Alfred A. Knopf; Sapolsky, R. 2017. Behave: The Biology of Humans at Our Best and Worst. New York: Penguin Press.




10


Fromm, E. 1969. Escape from Freedom. New York: Avon Books. First published 1941.


