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1


#MeToo       .  ( . .  )    2017         ,      .    . .




2


 (. manosphere)  -,   ,    .        ,      .




3


  (. 1937)  , , , , .




4


  (. 1952)  ,   Miramax Films. -  ,      ,   ,           .




5


 Β (. 1949)  ,    Β,    Fox News Channel  1996  2017.




6


  (. 1957)  ,    Today  NBC.




7


  (. 1942)  ,       CBS.




8


  (19532019)  .  2019         .          .       .




9


D.Ging, Alphas, betas, and incels: Theorizing the masculinities of the manosphere, Men and Masculinities (2017): 120, doi.org/10.1177/1097184X17706401.




10


D. M. Buss, The Evolution of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating, rev. and updated ed. (NewYork: Basic Books, 2016).




11


M. J. Albo etal., Worthless donations: Male deception and female counter play in a nuptial gift-giving spider, BMC Evolutionary Biology 11, no. 1 (2011): 329, https://doi.org/10.1186/1471-2148-11-329 (https://doi.org/10.1186/1471-2148-11-329); T. Andersen etal., Why do males of the spider Pisaura mirabilis wrap their nuptial gifts in silk: Female preference or male control? Ethology 114, no. 8 (2008): 775781, https://doi.org/10.1111/j.14390310.2008.01529.x (https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1439%E2%80%930310.2008.01529.x); P. E. D. Brum, L. E. Costa-Schmidt, and A. M. de Araujo, It is a matter of taste: Chemical signals mediate nuptial gift acceptance in a neotropical spider, Behavioral Ecology 23, no. 2 (2011): 442447, https://doi.org/10.1093/beheco/arr209 (https://doi.org/10.1093/beheco/arr209).




12


P. Seabright, The War of the Sexes (Princeton, NJ: Princeton University Press, 2012).




13


A. R. Pilling and C. W. M. Hart, The Tiwi of North Australia (NewYork: Holt, 1960).




14


D. M. Buss, The Dangerous Passion: Why Jealousy Is as Necessary as Love and Sex (NewYork: Free Press, 2000).




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17


D. C. Queller and J. E. Strassman, Evolutionary conflict, Annual Review of Ecology, Evolution, and Systematics 49 (2018): 7393.




18


W. D. Lassek and S. J. Gaulin, Costs and benefits of fat-free muscle mass in men: Relationship to mating success, dietary requirements, and native immunity, Evolution and Human Behavior 30, no. 5 (2009): 322328.




19


D. P. Schmitt, Universal sex differences in the desire for sexual variety: Tests from 52 nations, 6 continents, and 13 islands, Journal of Personality and Social Psychology 85, no. 1 (2003): 85104.




20


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21


A. C. Kinsey etal., Sexual Behavior in the Human Male (Philadelphia: Saunders, 1953); A. C. Kinsey etal., Sexual Behavior in the Human Female (Philadelphia: Saunders, 1953).




22


G. Tyson etal., A first look at user activity on Tinder, in Proceedings of the 2016 IEEE/ACM International Conference on Advances in Social Networks Analysis and Mining, ed. R. Kumar, J. Caverlee, and H. Tong (NewYork: IEEE Press, 2016), 461466.




23


G. Tyson etal., A first look at user activity on Tinder, in Proceedings of the 2016 IEEE/ACM International Conference on Advances in Social Networks Analysis and Mining, ed. R. Kumar, J. Caverlee, and H. Tong (NewYork: IEEE Press, 2016), 461466.




24


R. D. Clark and E. Hatfield, Gender differences in receptivity to sexual offers, Journal of Psychology and Human Sexuality 2, no. 1 (1989): 3955.




25


   . : D. M. Buss and D. P. Schmitt, Mate preferences and their behavioral manifestations, Annual Review of Psychology 70 (2019): 77110.




26


Chris Rock, A man is only as faithful as his options, BrainyQuote, https://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/chris_rock_378054 (http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/chris_rock_378054).


