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.   . -   . (http://litres.ru/pages/biblio_book/?art=19405358) .: ,  , 2019.    . .




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 .  (19261999)  ,   ,       ,  , .    .




3


Freudenberger, Staff Burn-Out Syndrome.




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Hultell, Melin, and Gustavsson, Getting Personal with Teacher Burnout; Larrivee, Cultivating Teacher Renewal.




5


Watts and Robertson, Burnout in University Teaching Staff; Cardozo, Crawford, et al., Psychological Distress, Depression.




6


Blanchard, Truchot, et al., Prevalence and Causes of Burnout; Imo, Burnout and Psychiatric Morbidity Among Doctors; Adriaenssens, DeGucht, and Maes, Determinants and Prevalence of Burnout in Emergency Nurses; Moradi, Baradaran, et al., Prevalence of Burnout in Residents of Obstetrics and Gynecology; Shanafelt, Boone, et al., Burnout and Satisfaction Among US Physicians.           0 70%. Van Mol, Kompanje, et al., Prevalence of Compassion Fatigue Among Healthcare Professionals.




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Roskam, Raes, and Mikolajczak, Exhausted Parents.




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Manne, Down Girl.




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Friedman and F?rster, Effects of Motivational Cues.




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