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2


Smith, D. E. Editors Note: The Process Addictions and the New ASAM Definition of Addiction. Journal of Psychoactive Drugs 44, no. 1 (2012): 14.




3


Angres, D. H., and K.?Bettinardi  Angres. The Disease of Addiction: Origins, Treatment, and Recovery. Disease-a-Month, 54, no. 10 (2008): 69621, p. 696.




4


Hilton Jr., D. L. Pornography Addiction  Supranormal Stimulus Considered in the Context of Neuroplasticity. Socioaffective Neuroscience & Psychology 3, no. 1 (2013): 20767.




5


Freyd, J.?J.?Betrayal Trauma Theory: The Logic of Forgetting Abuse. Cambridge, MA: Harvard (1996).




6


Herman, J. L. and M.?R.?Harvey. Adult Memories of Childhood Trauma: A Naturalistic Clinical Study. Journal of Traumatic Stress 10, no. 4 (1997): 55771.




7


Rachman, S. Betrayal: A Psychological Analysis. Behaviour Research and Therapy 48, no. 4 (2010): 304311, p. 304.




8


Daire, A. P., L.?Jacobson and R.?G.?Carlson, R. G. Emotional Stocks and Bonds: A Metaphorical Model for Conceptualizing and Treating Codependency and Other Forms of Emotional Overinvesting. American Journal of Psychotherapy, 66, no. 3 (2012): 259278, p. 273.




9


Schore, J. R., and A.?N.?Schore. Modern Attachment Theory: The Central Role of Affect Regulation in Development and Treatment. Clinical Social Work Journal 36, no. 1 (2008): 920.




10


www.nbcnews.com/storyline/nfl-controversy/why-she-stayed-ray-rice-video-sheds-light-domestic-violence-n200266.


